Oct 21, 2019
How to escape from Friendzone to Endzone
How to escape from Friendzone to endzone
Being stuck in a friendship and wanting more can be a frustrating position.
How do you motivate a friend to be "more than friends"? How do you move forward from "just friends" to girlfriend, boyfriend, partner, or lover? How do you escape the "friend zone"?. Very easy and common, you are too afraid to move on or draw a line because you are feeling “in comfort zone” area or in many cases you are too afraid to know the truth.
Here is some tips and tricks for friendszoners :
o Be more interest in wine than your friendzone
The relationship is already imbalanced because you value it more than the other person. Being "needy" is no way to negotiate. Desperate people end up with what others give them, not what they want. So, be less interested, put your interest more for the things that makes you happy. You know, like plaga wine.
o Spend more wine-time
Spend some time away from your "friend" and do less for them. If they truly appreciate you, then your absence will make them miss you and want you more. This may increase their desire for you and their willingness to meet your needs back. If it doesn't, then they are just "not that into you." In that case, find another "friend." You know, like plaga wine
o Do some test
Short of childish act when you behave the opposite way from what they like from you or they expect you to. But somehow this kind of behaviour proof the “real” ones to stay. Get drunk, get wasted, let them see you at your worst
o Get them to invest *on a bottle of wine
Ask your friend to do things for you. “Dinner at my place tonight, come with 6 bottles of Plaga wine” learn to say that. Psychology beliefs people like you more when they do favours for you, rather than when you do the favour for them. NEVER think when you do more, they will stay and when you didn’t do anything they will leave. Its works the opposite way, darl. So stop doing favours ... and start asking for them
o Be Fair
The only way to get out from toxic kind-of-relationship is by not being one. Aside from The fact that you should not doing more is true, at least be fair. After they are good to you, remember to be good to them back. Always remember to keep an environment of mutual gratitude flowing, too. Next time, on their birthday send those 6 bottles of wine to their place. You know, you can buy online from website ship around Indonesia and its free delivery for Bali area.
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